I came to terms with my sexuality about 30 years ago when I was in my twenties. Because I was a Christian, it was imperative to me to understand what it meant to be gay from a biblical perspective. One of the most formative books I read was Is the Homosexual My Neighbor? by Virigina Ramey Mollenkott and Letha Dawson Scanzoni. It provided a theological understanding of being gay and it helped me understand that God accepted who I was as a gay man. That led me to ultimately find a good man that became my husband when we married in 2007.